Coming back after long time it feels so great to write. Writing is easier but what to write is difficult. This time 'Mistakes' have been given a place in my writing. But this time it's not about the mistakes we do or mistakes we will make or have been done in past, it's about how people react when they realise or learn about our mistakes and what comes out after that is quite bitter or hurting but true.
Nowadays, when a friend gets hurt by someone else physically or emotionally, it's a simple action of apologizing and moving on.But when we tell these things to our close friends or to siblings or close cousins or someone else,they way react is like "how can you do this","are you nuts you really did this thing", or Like this "I am ashamed to you say you my friend or whatever he/she is."I mean why such senseless reaction? They are also human beings ,can't they do mistakes, they don't deserve a second chance or what. Mistakes done by innocence are ok but no intentional mistake falls in this.
I can give my example, A few months back I did a mistake which was quite meaningless and senseless, I mean even I couldn't believe I did that. But when I told my closer friends and siblings everybody literally started bombarding me with taunts and angry statements. Someone even told me that You are doing an MBA and such mistake was not expected from you. I was like what the hell MBAs are born with special improved brain or what. Why can't people accept the fact that it was done with half knowledge or innocence or lack of smartness or something like that. Rather than supporting and encouraging to avoid such mistakes in future they start their own set of statements.
Come on people this will only make them more angry on themselves and they might even start hating you and in the end you both might lose each other forever.
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